The mentoring decision is always an individual one contingent on many different things including timing, readiness, opportunity and commitment.
Here are six common ways to know you are ready…
ONE: YOU HAVE TRIED MANY WAYS TO GET TO YOUR IDEAL LIFE AND HAVEN’T FOUND ONE THAT CREATES THE CHANGE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
You are sick of coughing up money for the latest program, healing session, audio, e-book, natural therapy…
These things make you feel better for about 10 seconds or give you a little more awareness, but the basic issues are still there and you are determined to change them.
TWO: A PIECEMEAL APPROACH DOESN’T WORK
You have tried a bit of this and a bit of that and you now KNOW you require a COMPREHENSIVE, OVERALL, STRATEGIC approach to dissolving your blocks, expanding your opportunities and creating ease in your life is required.
THREE: YOU AREN’T HAVING A LOT OF SUCCESS CHANGING THINGS ON YOUR OWN
If you just had someone there consistently who is caring, expert, willing to be present and help you solve those things together your life could be completely different.
You just need more clarity, inspiration, consistent support and guidance to get to the next level.
FOUR: YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE CYCLING THROUGH THE SAME OLD STUFF OVER AND OVER.
You are intelligent right? You are disciplined, you do your best? Why are you cycling through the SAME THINGS despite your BEST EFFORTS at change?
Why do you NOT get beyond that thing? (What is that thing anyway)? Ughhhhh!
FIVE: YOU ARE SO CLOSE, YET SO FAR
Whenever you feel like you get close to cracking it, your resistance comes up, you go backwards at 100 miles an hour, things get overwhelming and you can’t sustain those changes by yourself.
SIX: COUNSELLING FEELS A BIT HEAVY AND NEGATIVE
You aren’t in need of therapy, you just need a few more skills, some inspiration, consistent support and knowledge of what it is you don’t know and you are really highly motivated to succeed.
If you could have someone there to run your successes and failures past each week and build on them with, you KNOW anything would be possible.