The issue is never money, it is always us. Lack of money issues is always a symptom of other things. Although this can seem frustrating and annoying, the exciting news is, if we can create money problems, we can un-create them.
“When you have an area of life that seems utterly awful, you have an unrealized genius in this area every single time”. Rose Aitken
You might be struggling, but what if you have an unrealized genius with money that you’ve never considered? What if by applying some simple tools and making some mindset shifts, you could begin to tap into that?
When you have a good mindset around money and good monetary habits consistently, over time, you will be successful.
Lack of Money reflects a Lack Mindset
A lack mindset is always the result of having low self esteem and self worth, which often corresponds with hardship, abuse, emotional pain or trauma in our lives.
We may blame it on not enough money, but the problem is we are not aligned with money, because we are carrying emotional baggage.
If this is you, don’t worry, it can all change. You can heal and with good support you can manage to re-open your heart and receiving, achieve wonderful things and have a flourishing life that is abundant in all ways.
1. INSTEAD OF REPELLING MONEY WITH WORRY, WELCOME IT
It’s hard to be happy about receiving money when we are terrified about not having enough and are worrying and mentally spending it before it even comes in. We are often so consumed with fear of more lack that we forget to be grateful at all.
Were you excited as a kid when someone gifted you money? What would it take to feel that way now? I realize money can seem crippling when it feels like there isn’t any. It is a huge leap of faith to feel broke and not worry. You have nothing to lose by trying it.
2. MONEY HAS A HIGH FREQUENCY – ARE YOU A MONEY MAGNET?
“Money follows joy” – Gary Douglas
When we work on us, the benefits are endless. Make sure to appreciate you for the money you do earn, the talents and money making capacities you have, your ability to receive and make good decisions.
2. APPRECIATE THE PEOPLE/BUSINESSES WHO PROVIDE YOU WITH THINGS
Show your thanks to each person who does something for you when they are work. Be kind to the forecourt attendant, the cashier at the Supermarket, the waitress or barista (You get the idea). By valuing them and their service, you value, you, your choices, your money
The result? The Universe will send you more money with which to touch more people’s day. You will look forward to and value that interaction so much, that it becomes a contribution to you and them.
3. PAY YOUR BILLS WITH JOY
Be happy! You live in a society with water to your house, electricity to run your appliances and internet. You have so many resources available to you it’s incredible.
Instead of being resentful at you money leaving, be happy that you are well enough off to consume these services and you have the choice of buying them.
4. HAVE A 10% ACCOUNT
Put the first 10% of everything you earn away for you and don’t spend it no matter what. When you do this, you attract more money and show the Universe you are willing to have money.
There is a difference between HAVING money and GETTING money. Rich people HAVE money, poor people have to GET money. It’s a subtle but important distinction.
When you pay bills first, that is where your focus goes and you are showing the Universe to bring you more bills. If you put your 10% away first and then pay your bills, you are sending a different message.
After you have put 10% away for long enough without spending it, you eventually accrue enough to no longer worry about expenses or unexpected contingencies.
From that space creating more money is a breeze, because you fear of not having enough actually recedes, never to be seen again.
3. EXAMINE YOUR ABILITY TO RECEIVE
For some people this is a difficult concept to grasp. Sometimes our ability to receive becomes impaired, particularly if we’ve been through hard times or experienced hardship for a long time.
For those who have been through abuse, they wall themselves off preventing the in-flow of money, kindness and love. If receiving is a problem for you, this is where dealing with our internal issues that are blocking our inherent abundance, is important.
Life naturally wants to support you in your growth and development and it isn’t supposed to feel hard (although I know how tough things can be).
Your natural birth right is a flow of ease, money, abundance and love and if we aren’t aligned with that, it can be changed.
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